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February 18, 2010 1:40 pm
A question: Is it possible for a woman to have a fulfilling sex life without having orgasms?
Once I had sweet, beautiful girlfriend who was always up for sex and was a warm and considerate lover. She seemed to enjoy it very much but never had an orgasm–said she hadn’t with her previous (only previous) boyfriend, either. (Don’t think the problem was me in view of other experiences)
For guys the idea of sex without orgasm sounds like just raw frustration, but I wonder if it’s different for women.
anonymous PERMALINK
February 18, 2010 2:50 pm
@Daniel,
It is certainly possible for a woman to have a satisfying sex life without orgasms. However, once she has one, a) her interest in sex will increase hugely and be even more satisfied, and b) she’ll adore the man.
Almost all women can have orgasms through clitoral stimulation; much less through vaginal stimulation. She can start by practicing solo. It takes relaxation and trust to orgasm with a man. I suspect all the sport sex today is unsatisfying for most women. They get-off on being desired, and understand that intercourse is part of the deal.
sexademic PERMALINK
February 18, 2010 5:25 pm
Adding onto sticky-wicket’s sexperience analogy: Even if you go to class every single day, if you don’t study and pay attention, you won’t learn a damn thing. Sex isn’t like a game where you can rack up experience points just by playing.
As far as the neg, it is closer to an insult than anything else. The whole point of a neg is to bring the woman down a peg or two. Negs are not meant to make anyone feel good. Example:
“I really like how you eschew the beautiful glamour and svelte aesthetic. Your homely look is so refreshing.”
Just because you coat it in sugar and flirtation does not mean it becomes a compliment.
Thanks for taking the time to critique my writing though! I’m having fun reading through the Girl Game posts.
